The Five Love Languages

I enjoy reading very much...

Especially those inspiring one...

Thanks Joel for lending me your book...

I really enjoy reading this book a lot...

Obviously...

Most of the contents of the book is talking about how to express your love to your MATE...

And i am not having a mate now...

But maybe i will in the future?

Haha...

Anyway...

After i finished reading this book...

I am on the way to confirm what is my love language...

There are 5 love languages normally people own...

1.Word of affirmation

-Those who give praises, positive comments and show their love through words

2.Quality time

-Those who like to spend time and need others' attention for a period of time

3.Gifts

-Obviously this love language is for those who like to receive gifts as a token of love

4.Acts of service

-Show their love through actions, can be a simple house chore

5.Physical touch

-For an example,hugging one when he or she is crying

I think mine are quality time and acts of service...

I like to be a listener for others...

But sometimes i need a listener for me to pour out my every feelings too...

I like to spend time with my love ones...

I enjoy spending time with them even though it just a simple meal...

I grow up in a family that showing love in the way of action...

We normally hard to speak out our love to each other...

But we will show our love through a simple action to let each other know that we love each other...

I am impressed by the cases mentioned in the book...

The one makes me feel amazing is the story of a Christian woman tried to love her husband who she began to hate...

How can we love the people we hate?

It is indeed a very hard decision and action to take...

But the author brought in the Bible verses...

But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.(Luke6:27-28)

Do to others as you would have them do to you.

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ love those who love them.(Luke6:31-32)

Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.(Luke6:38)

The Bible verses strike my heart...

And remind me what to do now...

I am trying...

Avoiding myself from burning in the flame of anger...

I need time...

How hard to learn this task that God has given to me...

I am struggling...

Pushing myself to treat everything as usual...

I really hope i can...

But i just can't despite the darknesses of the world...

Lord,please help me...

Anyway...

This is a very good reading material for me...

Learn to discover others' love languages...

Learn to speak others' love languages...

I have a new perspective of expressing love to my love ones...

Once again thanks the owner of the book...

Haha...